Being a teenager is the toughest thing any of you will go through..well except for a divorce or death of a loved one.
Adults just do not remember how hard this time of life is for you.
They forget how important all of these things that you ask questions about are.
Parent do not have all the answers either..they just muddle through life..just like you.
I am as old as dirt..and still have some of the things that happen to you..happen to me.
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Is it possible to change certain characteristics that you don't like about yourself? Recently there have been things that I've done that I normally wouldn't do that have made me and my bf get into fights. They're little fights, and we always end up resolving them, but in the end I feel like a complete idiot for making such a big deal out of certain things. I want to change the way I react to things, and the way I think about certain things. Do you think that's possible?? Any suggestions? (link)
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this is so me..it take a lot of hard work..you have to chaange how you think about things first..and then make an effort NOT to do them...
I real books about bad behavior and Dr. Phil has been really good. Take one thing at a time. I decided not to talk badly about people..and let me tell you..this has been hard..as everyone wants to do that.
About the fights..count to 50 girl..no way you can yell at someone if you count it off..or walk away..
remember when you yell..you actually are LOSING the argument..
I do the same thing about a big deal..now..i just keep my mouth shut..it is working..people are like..what has happened to you..takes a HUGE effort to keep it shut..but..it is worth it.
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