Hi,
I am 23 years old and have recently completed BSc Psychology. I work as a relief support worker - I provide in-home and community support to adults with learning disabilities.
I welcome questions from anyone and on any subject.
Gender: Female
Occupation: Psychology student
Age: 23
Member Since: November 29, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: November 29, 2004
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my boyfriend of 9months has recently started smoking weed and hes always telling me how his parents dont trust him now because they are so suspicious that he smokes. and whenever he asks them if he can come to my house they say no because they dont even trust him. i love my boyfriend to death i just hate that he smokes. he doesnt try to make me smoke or nothing, but its soo dangerous and he knows i dont like it and he doesnt do it around me or nothing..but he talks about it and it just like kills me to know he is hurting himself...i tryed talking to him about it...what can i do? (link)
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Hi there,
I feel exactly the same about drugs as you do and think you bouyfriend should remember that he is breaking the law by doing this. Furthermore, there are some possible negative side effects to smoking weed, such as the effect that it can have on the lungs, not to mention the psychological effects. Get you boyfriend to check out this website: http://www.personalhealthzone.com/marijuanasideeffects.html
However, it is your boyfriend's decision if he wants to smoke weed. I know many people who smoke the stuff and it doesn't make them bad people, or people that you can't trust. And I think with the fact that your boyfriend does not smoke it around you shows that he is a decent person. One thing I want to point out is that weed is probably no more dangerous than alcohol. You say that both his and your parents don't trust him now - but why? The main difference between weed and alcohol is that weed is illegal!
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