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I have quite a few friends whose crushes run far deeper than this girl who might be underage. Really, there's only a handful of people I talk to that aren't college students. The girl who I have the strongest feelings for is unattainable. This isn't just my low self esteem talking, she really isn't.
1. She's one of my best friend's ex.
2. She's my favorite teacher's daughter. I might lose some of his respect if he even new I had these feelings. Mainly because
3. she's engaged. And the guy she's engaged to seems like a great guy.
This girl is a few months older than me, but we graduated together.
Other girls don't seem to feel the same way I do. I told this other friend I had feelings for her, and that ended in me being angry at her and hiding it (She lied about how she felt, and it hurt pretty bad. I won't bore you with that, it's in the past).
Anyway, this is the only girl (the one at the store) who actually seems to have feelings for me too. The real problem is I live in a semi-small town. Most of the girls I know are already spoken for. And I simply will not date her if she's too young. (link)
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It sounds like you are a great guy with good rules for yourself about who it is and isn't ok to date. Meeting people can be really tough. And sometimes dating just sucks. It's important to try and keep your sense of humor and optimism about the whole thing. If you like someone and they don't like you, learn to let it go right away, or you'll become discouraged and bitter. Just keep treating people respectfully, and eventually you'll meet a girl who is a great match. Most girls you meet will not be a great match. Maybe that's why it's so special when we do meet the right person.
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