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I've had this crush on this girl for quite some time. It's gotten to the point where I'll buy stuff I don't really need, nor do I really want, just to talk to her. She always seems happy to see me and always gives me a big hug before I leave. The problem is I have no idea how old she is. I'm not the type of guy who judges people who date younger or older people, but it seems to worry my when I'm involved. I'm 20, what if she's only 15 or 16. She looks and kind of acts young, so I'm worried. What do you think the dating age limit should be for someone like myself?

The other problem. Earlier today, I saw scars and cuts on her rist. It doesn't look like something an accident would have caused. I know she can't really die from cuts on arm, but the scars aren't exactly good for her either. How should I go about asking her where they're from? Is it even my business to ask such a question? What if she obviously lies to me about the scars origins? Should I just drop it then or what?

OK.. first of all when i was younger(13/14) i had a 20yr old that i thought really liked me. it turned out he didn't. He made me do things that i didn't want to do.. but i did them anyway cause i liked him. I honestly think by your conserns and your worries that you DO like her. and that's all that matters. just make sure that you respect her and what she wants too.. she may not be as old and matured as you. some times its hard but things are left better alone till you know the person better and maybe a little more about her okay?

Trying to help,
tifany

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