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i just recently moved from northwest Indiana to Dayton, Ohio with my boyfriend Brian. We've been together for 3+ years (as of 07/15/01). i am an office manager at a local painting company. I currently drive a new 2004 Black Chevy Malibu LS. I love to go shopping, watching movies, minigolfing, and bowling. some of my favorite music artists are: Britney Spears, Jessica Simpson, Christina Aguilera, Hilary Duff, Justin Timberlake, Ashlee Simpson.

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I've had this crush on this girl for quite some time. It's gotten to the point where I'll buy stuff I don't really need, nor do I really want, just to talk to her. She always seems happy to see me and always gives me a big hug before I leave. The problem is I have no idea how old she is. I'm not the type of guy who judges people who date younger or older people, but it seems to worry my when I'm involved. I'm 20, what if she's only 15 or 16. She looks and kind of acts young, so I'm worried. What do you think the dating age limit should be for someone like myself?

The other problem. Earlier today, I saw scars and cuts on her rist. It doesn't look like something an accident would have caused. I know she can't really die from cuts on arm, but the scars aren't exactly good for her either. How should I go about asking her where they're from? Is it even my business to ask such a question? What if she obviously lies to me about the scars origins? Should I just drop it then or what?

Well i was 17 when i met my boyfriend who was 20 (he was going on 21).. It's a little age difference. But not too bad. I would say 16 should be the minimum. I mean honestly the age different between you and the girl isn't THAT bad it's just she's just at a younger age right now where her parents may not agree. Not if she was 20 and you were 25 that would be fine. But try to find out her age and stuff. Now as for the cutting goes. You can get hurt from cutting yourself. If you cut a vein (on your wrist) the wrong way you could bleed to death. I don't know how well you know her but i wouldn't think it would be very comfortable asking her about it if you don't know her well. I would drop it for now, if you two end up getting closer and you still notice cuts on her wrist then you could bring it up.

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