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I've had this crush on this girl for quite some time. It's gotten to the point where I'll buy stuff I don't really need, nor do I really want, just to talk to her. She always seems happy to see me and always gives me a big hug before I leave. The problem is I have no idea how old she is. I'm not the type of guy who judges people who date younger or older people, but it seems to worry my when I'm involved. I'm 20, what if she's only 15 or 16. She looks and kind of acts young, so I'm worried. What do you think the dating age limit should be for someone like myself?

The other problem. Earlier today, I saw scars and cuts on her rist. It doesn't look like something an accident would have caused. I know she can't really die from cuts on arm, but the scars aren't exactly good for her either. How should I go about asking her where they're from? Is it even my business to ask such a question? What if she obviously lies to me about the scars origins? Should I just drop it then or what?

Ok...question number one. I'd say the age limit for you would be 17. Sorry, but it should be 18 BUT 17 is on the border so its ok. And if you really want to find out her age introduce a friend to her and have him/her ask how old she is that way it doesnt seme like you are unsure.

Ok...question number 2. Just simply ask her when you see the scars again "woa, that looks painful...what happened? I used to have a cat that scratched me up really badly." Just play along with it or something. Make it seem like a casual comvo. Hope I helped and good luck!

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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