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I went through a break up a couple months ago and haven't seen this guy until last weekend. i was trying to be strong and not hook up with him again cuz it took me so long to get over him the first time around, but i just went for it because i missed him. all my feelings for him came back but he lives across the country (im in cali, he moved from cali to jersey) so i only get to see him during holidays and stuff. i have this feeling we were meant to be together and i can't let it go-at the same time its torture for me.

how the hell am i supposed to get over him again im in so much pain. a little help guys how do you get over an ex?

Wow. This situation kinda reminds me of what I went through a few years ago. It was awful...I think I know how you feel. We had broken up, and about a week later I moved to another location. I felt so depressed and angry for breaking up and felt like he was the one I was meant to be with. I still have the feeling, but not as strong. But this is about you! Not me! I do believe the best thing is to keep in touch - write e-mails, IM each other, write letters. He might realize the effort you are making to keep in-touch and talk to you about it. But at the same time, try to distance yourself (a TINY bit) from the idea that you two were meant to be together forever. Just feel good about yourself and the whole situation. So keep in-touch...and distance yourself! Lol. Hope this helped.

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(Rating: 5) thats actually really good advice thanks so much
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