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Hey-i was reading through your column and i really liked the advice you were giving so i was wondering if you could help me out with a situation i have:
alrite so beginning of this year (i was still a junior in high school) i met a guy (a senior in high school who's now a freshman in college) through my best friend's boyfriend and one nite after all 4 of us hanging out i ended up hooking up with him. When it started out, neither of us was looking for a relationship, i was just looking to gain experience so i figured it was a great idea. Long story short-i went pretty far with him and got attached-towards the end of the school year we found out we both really liked each other, we went to prom together and were hooking up monogamously for about 4 months but he never asked me out-finally middle of summer he said he didn't wanna lead me on but he really didn't want a gf when he was gonna be leaving for college in a month-i told him i understood but naturally i was heartbroken. So i didn't see him the rest of the summer, i've just heard stories about him hooking up with other girls which killed me...literally but i finally finally got over him (its been a long long road). Anyways he's back for thanksgiving break and i haven't gotten play in awhile-so this friday we are getting together-im really worried cuz when i see him i don't know if i will have the strength to turn down hooking up with him, but i definitely know i don't have the strength to get over him again-at the same time....i desperately need play LOL. What do u think i should do?!?!

thanks

hmm.. lets see- well first of all he was an ass for leading you on all that time, and then not wanting a relationship afterwords, but i can kinda see his point bc u guys wont always be like side by side as much as u would like. if u really want some from him then u should go for it! just make it a one night stand!! but if u think u will get heartbroken and too attached, i think u need to find another guy whu is actually looking for a gf and some play at the same time :) u just need to decide which ones more import. to u. hope i helped!

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(Rating: 5) thanks for taking the time to read this and offer your advice i really appreciate it-you are totally right
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