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Hey-i was reading through your column and i really liked the advice you were giving so i was wondering if you could help me out with a situation i have:
alrite so beginning of this year (i was still a junior in high school) i met a guy (a senior in high school who's now a freshman in college) through my best friend's boyfriend and one nite after all 4 of us hanging out i ended up hooking up with him. When it started out, neither of us was looking for a relationship, i was just looking to gain experience so i figured it was a great idea. Long story short-i went pretty far with him and got attached-towards the end of the school year we found out we both really liked each other, we went to prom together and were hooking up monogamously for about 4 months but he never asked me out-finally middle of summer he said he didn't wanna lead me on but he really didn't want a gf when he was gonna be leaving for college in a month-i told him i understood but naturally i was heartbroken. So i didn't see him the rest of the summer, i've just heard stories about him hooking up with other girls which killed me...literally but i finally finally got over him (its been a long long road). Anyways he's back for thanksgiving break and i haven't gotten play in awhile-so this friday we are getting together-im really worried cuz when i see him i don't know if i will have the strength to turn down hooking up with him, but i definitely know i don't have the strength to get over him again-at the same time....i desperately need play LOL. What do u think i should do?!?!

thanks

Hi darling,

You clearly really like this guy and to be honest it sounds to me as if he really likes you too. Your right not to want to hook up with him for a ‘one night kinda thing’ you’ve just got over him and you know that would put you back to square one. There are a few practical things you could do to stop that happening. Find a nice boy to ‘play’ with before you meet him….lol…… or take a friend with you or meet in a café or some place you couldn’t hook up. But the thing is hear is have you ever told him how you feel – you haven’t, it may be he was running away from his feelings because he didn’t want to go to college leaving his gf behind. Hearing how you feel about him may change every thing. In these situations I always say follow your hart not your head - go for it. However something you have to consider first, if you did have a relationship with him you would have to be Able to trust him while he’s away ay college. Weather or not you could do that and if he’s worthy of that trust is your decision. Good look babe and let me know what happens.
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