The name is Kayla.
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Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
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Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
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Location: Georgia
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Age: 16
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I need help. Ive just recently started dated a guy i really like. My friend was really excited for me when she found out. But then both of them got into a big fight and now they hate each others guts. They always get into big fights. One time he called my friend bad names to her face. I stood up for her tho. cuz the reason why he cursed her out wasnt a good reason. But since he cursed her out shes been getting mad at me lately. She thinks that im putting him before our friendship. But im not. I value our friendship more than ever. She thinks i should break up w/ him because of the way hes been treating her. But i dont want to break up w/ him because he is sooo sweet to me. I feel like i can talk to him about anything. Plus he hasnt done anything to me. I know it wasnt right of him to call my friend bad names and i stood up for her even. but i guess thats not enough for her. My other friend told me that im putting him infront of my friendship w/ my friend since hes my first bf. Everybody is getting mad at me just bc im going out w/ him. Today my friend told me that i was hurting her by going out w/ him. She keeps rubbing things in my face and shes making it seem like im a horrible friend. and it hurts because i dont want to be. I dont think i did anything wrong. She told me that i should put friends first. And i do put friends first. i stood up for her did i not? i dont know what to do...i really need ur advice!! because i like this guy alot and he doesnt treat me bad or anything but my friend hates him. and sooner or later i might have to choose between them. but i dont want that to happen. please help!!!!! (link)
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Ok, well next time your friend says something to you about how you should break up with your boyfriend and you aren't a true friend. Just be like, hey, ok, listen. I like my bf a lot and I don't want to loose him. He hasn't done anything to me and I know he cussed you out, but I stuck up for you didn't I? Be like how did I not put my friends before my bf in that situation. I did. I told my bf that wasn't right and he shouldn't have done that, and I did that just for you. I know you don't like him anymore, but just because you don't like him doesn't mean I can't. Then say, you know how nice and sweet he was when you were friends with him and if he hadn't have cussed you out then you would still feel the same. Please stop taking your anger out on me and trying to break us up to get back at him, this isn't fair to me and I don't want to have to choose. -Kayla
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