Being a teenager is the toughest thing any of you will go through..well except for a divorce or death of a loved one.
Adults just do not remember how hard this time of life is for you.
They forget how important all of these things that you ask questions about are.
Parent do not have all the answers either..they just muddle through life..just like you.
I am as old as dirt..and still have some of the things that happen to you..happen to me.
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MJy stepdad is a real jerk, and my mom always chooses him over me, is that right:? (link)
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18 is hard..you really are an adult..but most 18 year olds are still in HS or cannot afford to live on their own.
I have mixed feelings about step parents..first of all when you get married you HAVE to support your spouse..but here is where I agree with Dr. Laura...divorced adults SHOULD not get re-married until their kids ar grown...See a step parent step child relationship is the hardest thing to do...
But and YOU can show him this...HE MAY NOT CALL YOU names..An adult does NOT call a person names..that is both demeaning and VERY childish.
He is the adult..he should be acting and behaving better than you. Is he afraid of what you do on the computer or is the computer in his area at night?
As far as kicking you out..in 8th grade..what a loser...you were a child.
but I would have to ask you...what did You do to have that happen...if nothing then you all need to go see a FAMILY counselor..for you all have a very toxic thing going on in your house.
Could be that your mom is afraid of your Sd and will not stand up to him.
But as long as you live in your paresnt house..you have to abide by their rules...
this is a great incentive to go to a college FAR away or get a job and save money and move out.
I moved out at 20..after two years of college...I just wanted to be able to do what I wanted..when I wanted.
I hope you guys can find some peace....
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that has been the best feedback I have gotten..Thank you everyone though..everyone helped!
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