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Ok me and a girl have been going out for a while now we love each other very much, and yes we know the term love and how much emotion comes from it the most we have ever done is just kissed and we've decided not to go and have sex until like....we know each other for at least a couple of years or three. Im 17 and shes 16.But im worried, she says she loves me and i love her, but im afraid she will break up with me. I dont know why though she said she wont break up with me and i wont break up with her. We never have fights, we agree with each other, we have lots of fun together...is it just im paranoid? or should i be a little worried? im sorry that im stupid at this....lol but yeah im pretty good at advice but since its me thats trying to give my own advice to myself it doesnt actually work:P lol but please help me if you can. Thank you for your time. Sorry for the long question. (link)
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You are extremely smart to wait on the sex. I know the pressure can be hard, but you both seem to be comfortable with agreeing on the waiting. Yes, you are probably worried about nothing, you should be happy to have such a rare, beautiful relationship. Enjoy it all the way, man, (well, not exactly all the way), and if she wanted to have sex that bad to break up with you over it she would have already left you to sleep with someone else. She's not that girl. She's your girl who loves you. Try not to bug her too much either if you tend to say things often like, "please don't break up with me," or comments along those lines. Once in a while is okay but too much is annoying. Be happy and have faith in your girl!! I'm happy for you. I hope I helped at least a little. The main point I wanted to get across was that no you don't have anything to worry about unless you had real reason to believe she'd want to break up with you which it doesn't seem you do. Turn your anxiety into happiness!!
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