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Well...let's see...I give good advice and am pretty sympathetic, but when I feel like it, i'll just say whatever the hell I feel is on my mind. I live in a shitty small town in Florida..boring as hell. So whenever I'm not working or doing homework..I'd love to help ya!
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Age: 16
Member Since: November 10, 2004
Answers: 44
Last Update: November 26, 2004
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hey this is my first time lol. Well in the summer two years ago i got a new boy neighbor and i thought he was just gross .. then we started hangin out and flirtin and then we saw eachother in schoool and started talking and joking around. so a little then a year later my friend asked him out for me but he was dating someone else. so she tryed and he said okay tell her to meet me outside today. so my friend had basketball that day and i never got to talk to her. so i went to his house in the winter and starting talking with his younger sister and went in the snow with her and my other friends. he was riding his 4wheeler and kept staring at me... so i didnt know if we were going out or whatever had happened. so i went home and talked to my friend. she said he said to meet me outside .. so by now it was around 6 or 7 and it was dark outside so my friend called his hosue and he said no. things have changed completley .. i mean we talk and flirt still but he would probably never go out with me .. and i wanna be his friend well i am his friend but its just not the same you know? only because im friends with his younger sister he would never go out with me! its so stupid ! so ive tried everything to stay away from her and it really has been working but he still doesnt like me. im hurting so much and even though i tell my friends i dont like him anymore i still love him .. please help me !

Love,
Tired of Crying !

ps. people tell me oh hes not good enough for you .. well i know that but i still cant get over him ! help ! (link)
Awwww that's horrible :( Well if I were you... I would talk to him about you feel about him. Your worst mistake was letting your friend talk to him for you. Ya can't be shy and not tell him yourself!! If he sees that you're bold enough to explain your feelings for him to him, then he'll think "damn!" But seriously.. just open up to him and do NOT let your friends do it! Horrible choice right there! And if he still doesnt like you... it's not worth the time. He's just being stubborn. *Hope I helped :)*


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thanks a lot .. it really did help! i dont like him too much anymore i just wanna be friends w. him and i know things cant be the same .. what do i do?




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