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Ms. Quisha staying in Indiana
known for her witty, yet "Tell it like it is" advice searched the web to embark on a way of sharing her advice with others, The last straw came on November 15, 2004 when she got tired of of being unemployed and realized that NOBODY can determine her destiny, she then searched the web and found www.advicenators.com and she has since then been satisfied!!

In her spare time she is single and loves to mingle in certian parts of Indiana & Chicago, known as the "Carrie" of her friends ( From Sex in the city) she is ready to share her heartbreaks,funny dating stories, how to maintain a healty relationship or how to downright dump a no good partner!

advice

I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah

thank you in advance, I'll rate you all

~Allysa

Dear Allysa,

Been there done that..
I think you should tell her how uncomfortable this is making you. esp. since she is using you.. If you really want to shake her lose then you have to stop being avalible to her, so if that means avoiding her when she call's then thats what you will have to do, because the minute your friend gets in trouble, your name will be somewhere in it, and you will probably be the one paying for it..

Also tell John that you are out of it..It will make you feel so much better.
Dont ever be someone's doormat!

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(Rating: 5) haha yeha i tend to be adoormat, but ive gotta learn to stick up fo rmyslef
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