I give my friends a lot of advice on a variety of different things and while I'm at work, I tend to be quite bored and don't have much to do so I was surfing the net and found this site and thought it might be interesting. I've been through a lot...so I think I can help some people out...
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Location: Currently South FL (also have lived in CA, NJ and Spain)
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Age: 26
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I fall for men to quickly and then end up getting hurt. It is usually when you like a guy they don't feel the same way or vice versa. Now, I don't technically like someone right now, but I'd like to find someone I can spend time with and get to know so that I know something will happen. Any adive? I am nice, attractive, open minded, opinionated, spiritual, funny, love sports, love to talk, and just have a good time. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but there has to be something. People are always telling me how beautiful I am, and then they end up asking me why I don't have a BF, and I ask myself the same questions. Thanks! (link)
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I used to do the same exact thing, but now I'm a cold hearted bitch, but that's for other reasons. I too fall hard for guys, but now I've learned to not believe a word they say to me. I keep them at a distance at first and get to know them before I make up my mind. Rather than sit and think about how perfect of a couple we'd make I think about his faults and how I'd be able to deal with them. If you fall too quickly, next time you meet a guy concentrate more on his flaws than his attributes, it'll keep your mind a little clearer. After you get to know him, if you see those flaws really aren't so big, and also that he sees no major flaws in you, then you might be able to work somethng out. If a guy off the bat makes any critical comments about you...whether it be intelligence, attractiveness...etc. whatever, be cautious. He might not say it outright but he'll give you clues and if that happens it means the odds of the relationship lasting longer are very slim. :) I also like to give guys a speech before we start "dating" sort of a warning. TElling them that if they lie or hurt me in any way they'll be castrated. Its best to keep guys on their toes. I really am a great gf and totally devoted, but he has to know how things work and I can get a bit of his character before I fall for him. I have a serious of mind games I play with them before i decide if I can continue dating them. About getting guys, honestly if you are all those things you say you are, they should come to you. It's difficult to find the right guy, but just give it some time and he'll come along. Slap the next person who asks why you don't have a boyfriend. :) or tell them you like your freedom. I hopee I could help some. Take care and good luck.
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Ahh, thank you so much. I appreciate your comment, and it tells me a lot.
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