I give my friends a lot of advice on a variety of different things and while I'm at work, I tend to be quite bored and don't have much to do so I was surfing the net and found this site and thought it might be interesting. I've been through a lot...so I think I can help some people out...
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Location: Currently South FL (also have lived in CA, NJ and Spain)
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Age: 26
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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".
I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?
Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.
Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.
So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.
what do you think?
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I saw your feedback and you said you posted pictures on your profile, the thing is there's no way to tell what your user name is, unless I'm a complete idiot and just can't figure it out. Anyways, if you want to go back to my feedback area and tell me what your user id is then I can check. :)
Hey, sorry to hear about the situation you're in. Dating can certainly be painful and a drag. I'm 22 and my experiences haven't been too much greater than yours. My longest relationship was 9 months, then I realized it just wasn't working. I wouldn't say give up at all. Many times I've thought about giving up too and becoming a nun :). I usually date a guy for a couple weeks and then realize there really isn't anything there so I end it. I assume that's what happens with some of these girls you meet. They probably have been through a rough relationship or two and are very particular now about what they want. Its not that there's anything wrong with you, its just you're not for her. You just haven't met the right girl (yeah I know you've heard it a million times, but I swear its true). Rather than thinking all the time about how you HAVE to find a girl because that's what you're supposed to do...I get drawn into the feeling sometimes that i need a boyfriend...but that's just wrong. Enjoy your life. You're young. Have fun. When the time is right you'll meet the right girl. It ALWAYS happens when you're not looking. TRUST ME!!! And its a shame but most girls are looking for a guy who treats them badly...haha...I don't know why. But I've been in that situation, well currently am, where I've had the choice of two guys, both equally attractive and intelligent, however one was extremely trustworthy and treated me like aa queen and the other is sort of aloof. I have chosen the latter, but he's on probational terms right now...I would have chosen the nicer guy, but he was boring and I think I was a little too crazy for him anyways. Out of curiosity, because I'm nosey...I'm curious to see your picture now. Take care of yourself. CHeer up and have some fun. :) 25 is still young!!!!!
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THANK YOU, THE BEST ADVICE SO FAR. AS FAR AS WHY
GIRS PICK THE BAD GUYS IM AN EXPERT ON THAT SUBJECT, ITS 1.EITHER YOU WANT WHAT YOU CANT HAVE OR 2. ITS THAT YOU THINK YOU CAN TAME THE WILD GUY AND MAKE HIM ONLY BE WITH YOU, WITCH IS CRAZY AND KIND OF LIKE A CATCH 22 CAUSE IF YOU DO TAME HIM AND CHANGE HIM TO ONLY BE WITH YOU, YOU NO LONGER "1.CAN'T HAVE HIM" AND IF HES ONLY WITH YOU HE BECOMES A NICE, BORRING GUY AND NOT THE WILD GUY YOU WERE ATRACTED TO. HE BECOMES LIKE ME. IVE LEARNED THAT A WHILE BACK, AND IT SUCKS CAUSE I HAVE TO PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE IM NOT JUST TO MEET A GIRL. AND ONCE SHE AROUND ME LONG ENOUGH EVENTUALY SHE REALISES IM NOT THE BAD BOY TYPE SHE THOUGHT I WAS AND SHES GONE.
AS FAR AS A PIC, I UPLOADED TWO TO MY PROFILE ON THIS SITE, LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK AND THANKS
FOR COMMIN TO MY SELF PITY PARTY AND TAKIN THE TIME TO READ MY STUFF, IT FEELS BETTER WHEN YOU KNOW THAT OTHER PEOPLE FEEL LIKE YOU, MISSERY LOVES COMPANY I GUESS. ONCE AGAIN THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME
LATER
-CHUCK
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