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How do you have sex? Which hole is the penis supposed to be inserted into? By the way, I'm 13/f and I don't know whether I want to have sex with my boyfriend or not. I really like him, and he won't leave me alone about it. What should I do? (link)
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Ok...
If you have to ask how to have sex i'd certainly say that you are not ready to have sex. Sex is a big deal. Its something extremely intimate and you shouldn't have sex with someone unless you are really certain you won't too. Also the first time you have sex should be special and just remember you can't redo the first time you have sex.
Also this boy friend of yours should not be putting pressure on you like he is. You really need to stop and think about, if this bf is really in this relationship for you or because he thinks you will sleep with him.
Also 13 is also very young to be having sex. If you do decide to have it (which i don't think you should but this is your choice)you should make sure you use protection. Don't let your bf tell you he doesn't want a condom cause its not like the real thing! Condoms help prevent the risk of getting pregnant, getting HIV/Aids or a STD(Sexually transmitted disease).
Here's the thing when you are ready to have sex you will know it. You won't wonder if you should and you will want to share this experience with the person you are in a relationship with. And you won't have to ask how to do it.
It seems the only reason you would do this is for your bf and because he keeps bugging you about it and that is not a good enough reason. Also you liking someone alot is not reason enough.
If you still want to know which 'hole' the penis is inserted into. Message me and I shall explain. But first think about if you really want to have sex.
:)
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I can't even believe I wrote this! I found advicenators again after all this time and I wanted to say thanks for keeping me from doing something REALLY stupid! You changed my life for the better! One thing though is don't ever tell a 13 year old that something is their choice and they can do it if they want cause when i read that part all i heard was "Go ahead and do it!" glad you wrote the rest of it though! XD
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