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Q: Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas?
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You're probably weirded out because oral sex isn't something we do instinctively; it isn't really natural. There's nothing wrong with it at all, but to a girl that has been raised in a society that thinks body functions are disgusting, the thought of it can be scary at first. Don't do it until you feel comfortable. It isn't something he NEEDS you to do, no matter what men say. It's just a perk, and if he's getting laid, there's no reason to rush into something you aren't ready for yet.
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That last part is what he said when I told him it weirded me out. Lol. I see your point about the unnaturalness. My parents were both virgins until they were married...*cough* that gives you an idea of the kinda house I grew up in. ^^
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