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I give my friends a lot of advice on a variety of different things and while I'm at work, I tend to be quite bored and don't have much to do so I was surfing the net and found this site and thought it might be interesting. I've been through a lot...so I think I can help some people out...

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Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
If you don't want to do it, don't do it. If he won't accept that as a good enough reason tell him that you are prone to seizures (epilepsy) and that you're afraid you might have a seizure and end up biting it off. :) At 22, I still don't like doing it, so for the most part I just don't. No big deal, the guys don't complain and I make up for it in other ways.


Rating: 5
True, I don't have to if I don't want to, and he's never pushed. I almost feel like I don't do enough for him, though, which is why I'm considering...but still. Thanks =)




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