I give my friends a lot of advice on a variety of different things and while I'm at work, I tend to be quite bored and don't have much to do so I was surfing the net and found this site and thought it might be interesting. I've been through a lot...so I think I can help some people out...
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Location: Currently South FL (also have lived in CA, NJ and Spain)
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Well my boyfriend is acting really strange...well he always act like he doesnt want to do anything with me i always have to make the plans...he doesnt call me....he doesnt ask to meet me places accept for at times that is really not a good time...and i call him all the and he doesnt pick up unless i send a text message saying PICK UP YOUR PHONE...and i think that is very unacceptable i dont want to take up tooo muck of your time but please help HELP (link)
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We are not meant to chase after guys like that. I have had so many guys pull that with me. He usually is the one who started the relationship and so in the beginning he calls all the time and eventually I start calling occasionally...then he gets used to it and its always my responsibility to call. As things go on, he stops picking up his phone and makes up random ass excuses why he didn't pick up. I get pissed and just end it...and they wonder why. I have a list of guys calling and there is no reason why I should run after one fool because he likes to be chased. Don't call him. If he's your boyfriend he should be more considerate. Threaten him and tell him that if he doesn't change its over. If he refuses to change, move on. Now some guys are just like that by nature...but they're not going to improve...so if it already annoys you now...think about it a long time from now. I can't deal with irresponsibility...so those guys are immediately crossed off my list. Be confident always and know that things should either be equal (with regards to calling and making plans) or if anything he should be chasing after you. That's the ways its always been and how it always should be. A bit old fashioned, but its the truth.
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thanks 4 ALL your help but he was cheating on me and were now broken up
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