Being a teenager is the toughest thing any of you will go through..well except for a divorce or death of a loved one.
Adults just do not remember how hard this time of life is for you.
They forget how important all of these things that you ask questions about are.
Parent do not have all the answers either..they just muddle through life..just like you.
I am as old as dirt..and still have some of the things that happen to you..happen to me.
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Our 21 year old daughter had to move back home, because her roomate moved out to go to college. Our daughter couldn't afford rent on her own, so she moved in with us. She got a job working as a cocktail waitress in a real dumpy bar, now she has started dating a "regular" from the bar, and he is a 23 year old drug(meth)dealer. I have pleaded with her not to go out with this loser, to no avail. Question: Should we throw her out and risk her moving in with the boyfriend or try to put up with it, in hopes that she will see the light and dump him. She says she really likes him. As far as I know, she is not using meth, but does smoke pot. I am really scared. (link)
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ok..can you no remember being 21...for i do..and let me tell you I made THE worst decisions in my life..Oh i just cringe to think of the things I did.
if you confront you will alientate her.and then should someting bad happend..well you might not be in the loop when she needs to reach out.
If she is not disobeying the house rules then no..i would not kick her out. If she is affecting your lives by being there in a bad way you might ahve to put your foot down.
She will not leave him until he does something crappy to her or he leaves her.
Keep the lines of coomuication open...at least then you know about what is going on.
Am thinking of you.
Ps dated some really HUGE losers and did lots of..not really great things..i turned out ok. Your girl will too. Just love her.
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