Being a teenager is the toughest thing any of you will go through..well except for a divorce or death of a loved one.
Adults just do not remember how hard this time of life is for you.
They forget how important all of these things that you ask questions about are.
Parent do not have all the answers either..they just muddle through life..just like you.
I am as old as dirt..and still have some of the things that happen to you..happen to me.
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Sorry it's so long, but I think I might to need to tell a teacher or somebody, can you help me?
A friend told me earlier today, she made me pinky swear that I wouldn't tell a guidence counciler or anything... well she told me she's cutting, or like that she wants to start.
Then by 3rd period... 3rd block, whatever you call it, she said she talked to a friend and said that she decided she doesn't want to cut... I don't think she started, just she talked about wanting to cut, and she said she was suicidal, because she couldn't stand living with her mom, her parents are divorced, and he mom won't let her live with her dad, and her mom won't go to court & let her choose what she wants to do.
Can she change her mind from being suicidal, to having talked to somebody that fast, or should I tell one of my teachers... I have a teacher that I know I can tell anything to. What she made me promise is not to tell anyone, like from guidence or anything.
So what I'm asking is
1.)Is she really over it?
2.)Would I be breaking the promise (I don't care if I am or not, I just want to know if I'm breaking it. if I tell the teacher I mean.)
3.)And Should I tell the teacher?
(she told me around 7am, then around 12ish she told me she talked to a friend and won't cut, and doesn't think she's suicidal. She seemed happy when she told me.)
Thanks for all the help in advance, I appreciate all answers, even if they're rude. (link)
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ok..yes yes please my sister tried to kill herself many times..we ALWAYS took it seriously. But here is the fine line..sometimes all they want is someone to listen to them.Actully..they want THEIR parsnt to listen to them.You are doing this and you are a great friend.
Who helped YOu when you had your problem? That is the person I would confide in.
Divorce is so crappy on kids..no one wins..and the people who really needs to win are you guys.
ask her if she could get a advocate for her to speak to the judge. If her Mom has custody it is realy hard to undo it especialy if thre are no reasons for the custody being cahnged.
be there for her..you have been through this..do what YOUR heart feels ok.
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Thanks, I sent an e-mail to a teacher yesterday, and she doesn't have a comp at home, so I'm waiting to hear back from her on monday. It's an anonymous e-mail, but I was just wonderin what she'd say about it. My parents found out, and got me a phsyciatrist person. So I'm going to tell no matter what.
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