I love helping people out and I feel great giving advice to people out there I don't even know. It gives me great personal satisfaction knowing that the answers I give are pretty damn good. I have a cheery personality and I like art and music. I am not religious, but have a clear view of spirituality. I will never grow up completely, I clearly remember what it's like to be a teen, but now I have a much better perspective on how to get through it all because let me tell you, I have BEEN through it all. Glad to help any way I can...
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Age: 24
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hey .. my boyfriend is in the hospital rite now .. hes in intensive care .. he got into a car accident and now has a fractured skull, bleeding in the brain. the doctors have him in a drug induced coma right now..and they dont predict him to wake up for a few months, and then they will run the tests on his brain .. they are currently waiting for the swelling to go down on his brain. surgery was going to take place, but they decided to just wait for the swelling to heal on its own .. they dont expect him to wake up for several months now..but my question to you, is .. that im realllllyyy scared ... do yu think he'll be okay? hes in one of the best hospitals in jersey but still .. i need some truth..thnx .. anything yu say ill give yu a 5 .. (link)
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Think positive thoughts for him, visit him, read him stories, talk to him, play music for him..being unconscience is a non responsive state that isn't to say that they are not absorbing information from their environment or taking in any loving feelings. Also, pray if you believe in that sort of thing...be strong for him and don't give up. It's okay to cry, make people around you understand why this or that isn't getting done, but don't give up on your own life either. Also, if they don't let you get too close in intensive care, good therapy for yourself through this would be writing poems or if you play any instruments now is the time to indulge. Talk when you need to, don't keep your pain locked up inside. Be open about how you're feeling. Also, you've been with this guy for 3 years, be there for his family too. If he is supposed to be in a coma for several months maybe you should think about counseling, or maybe a doctor at that hospital could help. I, myself, will think good thoughts for you and your b'friend. May he get through this in full recovery.
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thanks so much for the advice .. it really means alot to me .. thanks so much again .
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