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okay well i have a step brother he is 18 and he is so nice and cool.I have a real brother that he is 17 and my real brother i've know him ever sence birth.Well my real brother is mean sometimes disrespectful and he abuses me physicly and emotionaly.But when he does he hits me real hard and we have a 3 yr difference he is physicly bigger then me and if i hit him back he will hurt me even more.Well yea im so use to having him beat me.my step brother that is so nice and stuff i feel wrong being around him i feel uncomfortable and he hasn't dont anything to me and i feel bad.but i dont really know him i just knew he was my brother but i never really knew him.and now he is here and i feel so wrong around him.I'm not use to someone being nice to me and wutever and i guess i feel uncomfortable i mean i can talk to one of my guy friends better then him.and i feel guilty.Plz help i dunno what to think rite now.

i think first of all you should get your real brother some help if he abuses you phicly that could be serious but i don't understand why u can't talk to him do u have more than friend feelings for him? take it slow around him if it helps make a list of things hes done good and things hes done wrong maybe it will make you feel better

good luck!! sincerly, Chicagostar113

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