i am very good listener so if there is ne thing tht u need help with just ask (u can ask ne thing cus i can usually answer pretty much about ne thing).MuCh LoVe...sHeLbY
E-mail: elitevball9@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Nebraska
Age: 14
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Okay here's the deal: this girl, who i like to refer to as my best friend. We do a lot together, she slept over about 10 times during the summer. We have soo many pictures together. We talk about everything. I'm 14/f, and i've known her since i was 11. In the past years we've come really close, or so i seem to think. When we're togheter, we have a total blast.. but sometimes when we were with other people, she shys away from me and doesnt pay any attention to me. And i know she used to be really really good friends with 3 of my other friends, they had this little group, u know? And she always talks about how shes been replaced by one of my friends in that group, and talks about how they always leave her out and stuff.. then when were with them she gets all up and tight with them. It really bugs me. Is she like, ashamed of me? I mean i have plenty of other friends, but i really feel strongly about her. She's pretty much the only person i tell everything to. And yea, she tells me a lot too, cause she knows she can trust me with everything. I just don't understand why she can't say i'm her best friend. How would i go about talking to her about this? I really want to but i dont want her to get angry with me.. please help. I know it's long :S sorryyyyy. oh i rate! (link)
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I NO HOW U FEEL!!i felt lk tht at times in mi old school....well ne ways u should just come out and tell her tht u rilly want to be best friends with her and not just buds.tell her tht when she tells u tht she feels left out and she is rilly all tight with her friends tht u feel tht u feel she is ashamed of u.and also tell her tht when u guys hang out tht u want her to pay attention to u and not just use u.well i hope i helped....!
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