Hey there I' Nicole Lynn Pietruszewski!!! I'm in 8th grade and go to Oltman Jr. High!! I play softball for Cottage Grove, Minnesota, and I'm having a blast just living my life one day at a time!! I hope you are too!! Well if you must know more about me, e-mail me or IM me!! Hope you have a great day!!! And I want you to know that i love yo help people out, I tend to know what people are going through, especaily girls, and I liek knwoing I amde someoens else's day...So ask away..ask anything..go ahead!! Here To Help...Nicole!
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Well this is a record 2 problems from me in one night...
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 months. I'm 16, he's 18. We are having sex. Mom knows, but hates the fact and thinks he wouldn't stay with me if I told him I didn't want to have sex anymore, and I'm DYING to prove her wrong.
But the thing is, I don't really want to stop the sex because quite honestly, I like it. lol. Obviously he does, too, but I know he'd stay with me even if I did say I wanted to stop. Our relationship is based on pure love, not lust. (not to mention the fact that we're engaged. Mom doesn't know that, though. She won't know for about 3 or 4 years.) Mom doesn't believe he'd stay with me. I'm dying to prove her wrong, but that involves sacrifice on my part.
If I actually wanted to test him, I'd have to lie to him, and I don't want to lie to him...
What should I do? Should I test him and prove mom wrong, or just leave it alone? (link)
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Well i read between the lines and found an easier way to fix this then not actually having to stop having sex...completley, first of all exactly how often do you have sex? Well anyways keep that answer in yuor head, and moving on.......Talk to your boyfreind and let him know about what your mother thinks, obvsouly he does love you, if you are enngaged, so he will understand what this is all about, anyways tell him that you want to try to go (how ever oftne you do it) without having sex, and if he agrees then GOODIE!! then you cna prove to mom your rigt and shes wrong (sucha great feeling) and anyways, if for some reaosn you slip in this little break from fun period, thats not your fault, at least you knwo he tried and you just coudltn help yourself, so i guess waht im trying to say is to just talkt o him adn figure out a plan!!! Hope i helped, let me know what happens!!
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Rating: 5
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I think I'm going to talk to him about it. I like your idea...=)
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