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Q: Hey there. I'm a girl, 14, and on the fat side.. lol. I'm not obese, but i am overweight (working on itt!!) And i've only ever had one boyfriend.. when i was in grade 6. People tell me i have a pretty face, but i think i'm just average. I'm also told i'm really sweet, and have an awesome personality.. but it just seems like guys don't look past my weight to get to know me and like me better. I have a lot of guy friends, but no boyfriends, you know? I get in a rut for soo long about not ever being in a relationship, and seeing all my friends with their boyfriends.. SO my question is mostly for the guys.. have you ever dated a fat girl? lol that sounds so rude, but it's the only way i can put it. And what is it that totally unattracts you to them? Why don't you take the time to look past their looks to see their true beauty. please helppp.
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I'm not a guy, but I'm a big girl. Lemme tell you, I found plenty of boyfriends in High School. It has nothing to do with your weight and everything to do with how you present yourself. Stand up straight, put your shoulders back, wear whatever you damn well feel like wearing, don't think about how you look, and be assertive! You see a boy you like, GRAB HIM! That's all there is to it. Most guys your age are pissing and moaning(though not as vocally as women) about their zits, muscles, apparatuses :), you name it! Believe me, only the jerks are noticing if you are a little chunky. Many, many guys like a healthy, curvy, sexy woman.
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omg thank you soso much :) one of the best answers yet. your awesome. THANKS!!
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Educated young woman who's worked with children for years. I have an open, liberal, natural, fun-loving outlook on life and the world.
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Gender: Female Location: Palm Springs CA Occupation: Nursing Age: 26 Yahoo: Member Since: September 14, 2004 Answers: 200 Last Update: March 8, 2005 Visitors: 14873
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