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ok here we qo :
i've known this boy josh since 4th grade and from the first day i like feel in love . lol and he's everything he;s hott (lol im not shallow) and he's a gr8 person and the funny thinq is he can qet ANY girl he wanted in a snap but he doesnt qet any . lol srry anywaysz back to my story . i alwaysz help him qet crushes and ii always help him wid his love life lol but everytime i do i fall mroe in like with him (not love im only 13 lol ) . anywaysz me and him are qood friends but i just wnated to know if there's any chance he'd like me one day . if not is there a way to make him like me?

Thank You ,
Ariella*

You can't "make" anyone like you. Aparently he already likes you or he wouldn't be your friend and trust you with so much personal information.

Here is the thing. Right now he values your friendship. He may or may not find you attractive that is what you need to find out. He may just not be willing to give up a good friend in the event that you two don't work well together or he may think that you only want him as a friend. Or, he may simply not find you attractive. There are many ways to find out if he does.

You two are friends, show some interest in a boy, tell him that you like him and ask his advise. He will either give it to you freely or he will beat around the bush. If he beats around the bush that means one of two things. Either he really doesn't like the guy that you are talking about (so I recommend that you pick a guy that he doesn't know at all or know anyone who does) or he doesn't want to see you with anyone because he feels about you the way you do about him.

Ask him questions like, How can I get his attention? Should I put on a little eye shadow? You are a guy am I the kind of girl that guys would find attractive? What do you look for in a girl?

Really listen to his answers and they will tell you a lot. If when you ask him what he looks for in a girl he gives a description that "honestly" describes you then he likes you. Then you just have to say, "Well, you just described me I guess then I need to look for a guy like you." And see what he has to say about that.

Good luck and let me know how it goes... :)

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(Rating: 5) wow . you;re amazing at advise!! like wow!! thanx soo much

Arii*
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