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Hey Y'all!!! First of all, my name is Becks! I'm a 16 (almost 17) year old junior I live in Dallas, Texas. I love giving advice- especailly about decorating, style, fashion, hair, make up, and boys! But I'll answer ANYTHING you've got so just ask babes!

luv ya,
Becks

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Hey, theres this girl in my pe class and I think she might like me. Well, I kinda like her too though. She acts kinda like it and gives me hugs sometimes and stuff and jokes around with me and stuff, and she seems like she always brings the topic of Homecomming up to her friend, lets call her Jenny. Anyways so she always says to Jenny that sits next to her when we sit on numbers for role call that she needs a date for Homecomming. But... I'm kinda scared to ask her to Homecomming because I don't know what to do.. I mean I know you go out to dinner and stuff and the guy drives the girl... but I don't have a car yet do I have my dad or mom drive us to the restaurant and then to the dance? I know to get her flowers or a corsage... ugh I don't know what to do! Someone tell me what to do about this and what should I get her and pretty much walk me thru the date! I mean like I could go with my friends or her friends because she says to her friend that all her friends are going to this fancy restauraunt with their dates and she wont get to go unless she has a date... so who drives and stuff? What do I do.... Help, I'm 14/m.
Sorry if this was a little long.

Well, fist of all, the girl tottally wants you to ask her. It's obvious! She keeps constantly bringing it up! You just need to go for it! Ask her out to the dance. As for the transportation, talk to her about it and ask other ppl who can't drive and see what they're doing. You can never go wrong doing what your friends are doing, and as long as your date agrees with how you should get there- you'll be fine! I think that it would be a good idea to go out to dinner with her friends. This shows her that you geniuinely like her and want to make her happy. Really talk to her friends tho (and their dates!) and get to know them. She'll think that ur totally awesome for bringing up convo's at dinner and she'll see that you're a good guy. Oh and you MUST pay for her dinner!!! If she says no, insist on paying and make sure u bring enough cash to cover both meals and some extra cash just in case. At the dance, ask her to dance alot and don't dance w. anyone else unless there's a good reason for you to! (example- her best guy friend asks if he can dance w. ur girl and u being the polite guy you are say sure, may i steal a date w. yours)As for the rest of the dance, go with the flow. Give her the corsage when everyone else does it. If you ever get nervous and don't know what to do, just look at what other ppl are doing. As for the girlfriend thing, wait until the end or atleast the middle of the night. If you still feel that you like her, ask her out. Maybe on a slow song while yall are dancing. Then that could be "your song." (girls eat that stuff up!)

I hope I Helped!
Please email me to tell me how it went i'm dying to know!
Luv, Becks!

PS- compliment her! When you first see her be like "wow! you look gorgoeus!!!" I'd so be in love with any guy who did that!

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