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ok i like this guy named jamie who is kind of a dork but he used to like me and a lot of people still thing he likes me. i used to think that he was really weird and annoying but now i figured out that i like him...a lot! anyway he is moving to Hong Kong in January so i'm not sure if i should tell him how i feel or not. he's kind of like a geek in my grade so if we were going out i would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my school life. i was thinking that i could tell him on his last day of school but then if he liked me too then i would feel really bad that i didn't tell him sooner. i'm worried that if i tell him that i like him now he'll either a. not like me and tell all of his friends or b.tell me that he does like me but then he would still tell all of his friends and i would be thought of as a loser.please help soon because i really dont know what to do!

First of all...You need to stop caring about what others are going to think of you. It's not fair to you, him and both your feelings. People at school already know you, why would they think your a loser for liking someone that's not so popular? You should tell him, it'll boost his self-esteem and instead of thinking people will say your a loser, their actually going to think your a good person because you show your true feelings. And who knows? Maybe there are a lot of guys and girls at your school who like eachother but don't do anything about it because they don't want to be a loser, so if you do it, many will fallow in your footsteps. What if he leaves without you ever knowing that he has a great personality?????? Try it.

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(Rating: 5) thanx so much im gonna tell him tomorrow i think! hope to talk to ya soon!
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