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Hey there, I am just a normal teenager, aside from the fact that I'm a little mature for my age. I've been through a lot in my life and I am a good problem solver. I like to help people with their problems because I've been through a lot of the same stuff and I wish someone would have been there to help me out. Ask me anything you want to. I will give you the most honest and educated answers I can. If I can't answer it, I'll find someone who can.
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OK I have this "friend". Really she used to be my best friend, then I went away for the summer and she really started irritating me by talking about all these hot guys she's saying and how they all hit on her and how when I come back I get the less hotter one because she saw them first. WTF is that?! Do any of your friends do this? And plus, I KNOW for a fact that all of them do not hit on her because 1) She's honestly not that attractive. I'm prettier than her, and I don't really think I'm all that pretty anyway. 2) Whenever we went out together, which was quite alot, nobody ever hit on her. She'd always approach the guys she knew first.
Well anyway, back to what I was originally saying...over the summer things got different. After I got back things were not the same between her, me, and our other mutual friend. The mutual friend and I would still get online and call each other and hang out and stuff. But the main girl barely wanted anything to do with us. The one thing that set me off was one day we were all supposed to go to Ryan's (a steakhouse) which is 30 minutes away but this "friend" called and bailed on me (telling me she had a headache and didn't want to drive) like she always ALWAYS used to but I always took it from her. So I was pissed and asked my other friend to go hang out so we went to Wal-Mart and guess who pulled up right as we were walking home?
Yup you guessed it. So the other friend asked for a ride and the "friend" looked kinda irritated then hesitated. Since then I haven't spoken to her till a few days ago. Today she was suposed to take me to pick up my check from Subway, but she didn't. I called twice, left a message on her phone and on AIM but nothing. I knew she wasn't going to come which is why I made plans for someone else to take me.
My problem is, she wants me to go to her birthday party on Friday and since she's been such a terrible friend to me and done nothing but made me feel ugly when we were out together (by saying the hot guys were looking at her not me), and never keeping promises or plans...should I go? I mean normally I'm such a loyal person but I think she's just gone overboard with this. I'm sick of it.
I'm so sorry this was long...I just thought you all should nkow the whole story. Thanks for answering and I will rate you a 5 if you even put one sentence just because you read all this! :D
This "friend" of yours is obviously very insecure about herself. She thinks that by putting you down, she can make herself feel better and prettier. However, it's not right of her to be treating you that way. She is not a very dependable person. It seems like she only wants to be friends with you when it's convenient for her. I know you are a loyal friend, but you shouldn't let people walk all over you. I had a similar problem with a friend of mine a few years ago and let me tell you..it can only get worse. Don't call her for awhile and if she comes around later and asks whats up, just let her know how you feel and tell her you're not going to put up with it anymore. If you decide to be friends again, just do it on your own terms. Never let this girl walk all over you again.
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Thank you SO much! You're probably the first person to answer this to tell me not to go to the party. I appreciate your advice.
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