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Name: Laura
Age: 14
Single or taken: Hem, single...
Height: 5'7 and a half
Weight: A three digit number
Eyes: Green
Hair: Reddish Brownish blondeish? lol
Grade: 9th.
Schooled at: Home
Race: Umm, I'm German, Irish, French and Italian...?
Religion: Christian (Baptist to be exact)


Don't fall for someone who won't be there to catch you.



advice

Alright I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17. A while back, we were hanging out; and I guess you could say things got a little out of hand. Well, I recently found out that I was pregnant. Today, my friend Amber (who is also pregnant, but not from my boyfriend) pushed me into telling my boyfriend. He didn't freak out, but he was upset. He told me that it'd be too much of a burden to have a baby now, and so he told me he wanted me to get an abortion. I'm very against abortion. I told him this, and he respected my opinion, but still tried to push me in that direction. He also suggested this "safe baby" thing. I don't really want to put my kid up for adoption either, because I can just imagine how much it hurts knowing your parents gave you up. My boyfriend doesn't want to tell his parents either, but he said he will, but you can tell how reluctant he is. He told me he loved me no matter what, but it was too much of a burden. I know he's not going to dump me, but he is afraid to keep it because he's going to college next year nad still trying to figure out his own life. Someone please tell me what I should do.

My dad was adopted, and he's fine, but yeah, it probably does scar you a bit. If you're pro-life, then no, don't abort it. You could talk to a gynocolagist(sp?) or counselor and ask them what's best. But I think you should have and keep the baby. Your family, him, and his family will probably help you. Hope everything works out.

~Laura~

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(Rating: 4) Thank you so much. Yea, I was adopted as well. It hurts more than it seems that it would. Thank you again.
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