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Q: okay, ive had my guy best friend for like a year now, and he recently just got a gf, theyve been goin out now for like 4 months, he loves her, she loves him, etcetc...he usta REALLII like me ALOT in the past..even when he was with his gf, we tell eachother EVERYTHING, he even told me how he felt about me...then i didnt wanna fuck nething up for them so i backed off so he would kinda stop having these feelings for me...now everything is back to normal i think...we just like gradually started talking again and we are like how we usta be...this was acouple months ago, but the thing is, i THINK that im starting to have tiny feelings for him starting to form..ahh i dunno whut to do cause i think im kinda jealous now?? i have no idea how im feeling..i dunno whut to do/think..id appreciate if u helped, thanks =]

Sorry, girly, but you blew it for now! Don't tell him, I say. You didn't jump on board while he was single, don't butt in now. He likes this girl, and if you interfere, you might make him very angry and resentful of you. What if he does like you back? You'd be putting him in a very tight situation. If your feelings for him are really tiny, like you say, then stuff them away for his sake and the sake of the poor girl he's dating. Imagine what kind of an enemy you'd make if you stole her man, or tried to, in her eyes. Just lie low. Sounds like you are all young, and young-age relationships never last very long. Wait until he's single again, then re-explore those feelings. It's better than risking a wonderful friendship.