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Q: Ok, well this guy and I just started going out. I like him so much and he likes me too obviously. Well we've only been going out for a day. Today at school I acted all weird. I mean I like him a lot but he makes me shy. I didn't talk to him much and tried to avoid him a little. I really want us to work out as a couple. What do you guys think I should do in order to not be shy and talk to him and such. I have had boyfriends so its not like I'm stupid, this guy just makes me shy like no other boyfriend has. Thanks :)
You need to break the ice and get more comfortable with him. The best way to do that is hang out in a large group of mutual friends and go do something fun. When you have friends around, that weird pressure you feel will diminish and you'll be more at ease to get to know one another. I remember with my first boyfriend, there was a constant terror of getting kissed and such. That threat isn't as looming in a group atmosphere.

He isnt my first boyfriend, lol. Thanks for the help

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