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Q: Mkay .. here goes .. me and this guy have been datin almost 7 months .. and i reallie love him !! But i have a reallie big trust issue .. i dont know how to trust him !! And he`s startin to think maybe we should "take a break" !! But if we do i know that will be it for us .. i cant loose him !! We have been datin for 7 months but best friends for 3 years .. why throw all of it away ?? And yea we could still be friends but i dont like him as friend .. i love him as a boyfriend !! What do i do ??
People make mistakes, That won`t change the fact that you can`t fully trust him. But give him space, Show him that no matter what you're there for him. A guy needs that kind of security. 3 years is too long of a time for a friendship to end over something so stupid and a relationship that went on for 7 months is too much just to call off just like that. Maybe taking a break may be a good idea, Not a long one and yall should still talk while having it, but show him that no one else loves him like you do or knows him as well as you do. He'll come back I promise girl. Just have faith. If anything yall just have a long talk about why you don`t trust him. Maybe he can do something to gain your trust back. If you love him and want it to work out as much as you say, you'll give him a chance. Good luck girl and I'd love to hear how it goes and if I helped!

Omg`sh thanks so much for the advice ! Just readin that ... it makes me feel like everything is guna be okay .. like if I just do like you said it`ll turn out okay with us .. I will definatly let you know how things went ..i plan on having a long talk about it all tomororw ... but thanks so much !!

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