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I'm 16 years old. I'm in 11th grade. Most of my friends that I give advice to have done pretty well.. either they took my advice or I made them think about things they haven't thought about b4.
I'm good at answering questions about sex. not that I'm like a fein.. but I like to know about it so I can be safe, and now if you ask for advice you can be safe and informed too.
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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think?

well like u siad its totally up to you. i thought the same way b4 it happeend to me. i thought it was sooo nasty!! and the kissing thing too! but! we (me and my bf) would talk about it and id be like "its ur mouth, if u wanna do it go head. but dont think ur gonna get any from me" and he still hasnt. and hes cool with that. i mean he wishes i would do that for him but i think its totally gross. but he can do it when ever he wants on me lol its feels so good!
and u can also tell ur bf that after he does that to you to go wash out his mouth. i tell my bf that too. well he does it anyway. but some of my friends say it shouldnt matter bc its u and u kno ur clean. but hey watever u wanna do lol.
i still rather him wash his mouth out personally.

Manda

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