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I have a friend who I like very much, but who has a habbit of asking me to call her because she's feeling low at really incovenient times. I want to be there for her, but it becomes problematic when I feel I can't fairly say no when she asks me to call for a few minutes because she's feeling low, even it's like 1am. If it really was a few minutes, it would be fine, but once she has me on the phone she's impossible to let go, because every time I talk about having to be up in the morning she talks about how people always seem to let her down when she needs them. I do want to be there for her, but I do need to sleep too, and I simply can't survive on talking till 2am or later every night to get up at 7am. How can I be firm about needing to get off the phone without offending her?
If she feels low at times,try to put a smile on her face and cheer her up.Girls have there times sometimes when they feel low.You need to explain to her if you have to be up in the morning and tell her that your there for her and that you care,but you have to wake up in the morning.What you should do is tell her that your tired and you need to go to sleep,but tell her that you would call her in the morning.And tell her that you still care though.Goodluck and hoped I helped.
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(Rating: 5) Thank you for your thoughts. Calling her more often of my own accord (at times that are convenient to me) would mean we could chat and I could help her out without resenting her keeping me up, and hopefully she'd see how much I do care and want to help. Thank you very much for your input!