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Q: okay heres my story! me n my friend went to the beach together n i took her there for her birthday! and we met this guy who we both thought was hott there..i talked to him first cause she was too scared! and he is realli intrested in me and i'm into him too! but i don't wanna hurt my friend! and i feel bad now cause i told her i would take her to the mall when me n him went but i didn't..we went last night but she doesn't know we went cause i know shes gonna get mad! i don't know what to do cause i realli like him! and i've had rough relationships in the past and he feels right for me! and i don't think talkin is gonna do much good with her feelings so instead of talkin to her what else can i do?! i feel kinda bad..but i realli truely like hiM! he's a sweetie!
ugh! help me please! i'll rate high!

Ps:she is just a friend..not a best friend
Dear "Friend and guy problem,"

Congratulations on finding a guy you're really into. About your friend...you're going to have to tell her sooner or later. I do think you should definately keep things going with this guy you met. To break it to her you should ask her if she still likes him. If she says no then tell her straight foward what's going on between the two of you. But you have to tell her even if she says yes. Remember the longer you hide this from her the more it's going to hurt her.

Good Luck :)
**Latina Gurl**

thanks!

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