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okay heres my story! me n my friend went to the beach together n i took her there for her birthday! and we met this guy who we both thought was hott there..i talked to him first cause she was too scared! and he is realli intrested in me and i'm into him too! but i don't wanna hurt my friend! and i feel bad now cause i told her i would take her to the mall when me n him went but i didn't..we went last night but she doesn't know we went cause i know shes gonna get mad! i don't know what to do cause i realli like him! and i've had rough relationships in the past and he feels right for me! and i don't think talkin is gonna do much good with her feelings so instead of talkin to her what else can i do?! i feel kinda bad..but i realli truely like hiM! he's a sweetie!
ugh! help me please! i'll rate high!

Ps:she is just a friend..not a best friend

well i say just go for him! i mean you were the one who talked to him first. that's her fault for being to scared. also, it's not like she had her eye on him first, you BOTH thought he was hott at the same time. now don't ditch your friend when you ask her to go do something w/you and your new guyfriend. but be honest with her about everything n maybe tell her something like "omg i really really like him!" if she gets mad then tough with her. you were brave enough to make the first move so why should that bother her?

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