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Q: ok..there;s this guy *dan* and he liked me a long time ago and then i started to like him but all he did was break ^ we me n hurt me really bad..recenlty we started tlkin..n we fell inlove..blah blah..well all my friends are yellin at me cuz they think he;ll just hurt me again..i dont tho..i could b wrong but oh well..then there's this guy *james* he asked me out and stuff and i guess i really like him..but like i still luv * dan* and now *james* is all pissd at me and sayin shit ..all i want is to be *james* friend..cuz i luv *dan* but he won;'t..hes bein all possesive & shit..and all my frinds r tellin me to 4get * dan* n giv *james* a try..cuz hes like perfect & hell treat me better--which maybe true..but i need to go out w *dan* its jus sumin i hav to do..even tho i ikno ill prolli get hurt,,idk help =(..i feel bad *james* really likes me..shuld i giv him a chance? or trust *dan* after he hurt me 3 times? sorry so long
u shudnt really listen to wat they want u to do. Do wat makes YoU happy. If u like *dan*, go out wit him! Everyone deserves a second chance. However, if he still treats u bad then thats not rite, so u shud leave him. Tell him u wanna go bak out wit him, but he needs to treat u rite, or else it cant work. Tell *james* yur not really ready to go out wit sumone else yet, and that its nothin personal. Hope i helped! :)

i think i'm going to do just that..thanx =)

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