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Q: I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.
Desperate for my life back and confused!!
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Well if you dont want to take care of it no more because its to hard giving it to an adoption centre is the only thing you can do. Yes it is hard but if you really love her then there is places you can go to school where you bring your child into the school while your learning. Also just giving up that isnt the way to go though. I have two kids and there both 1 year old and im 17. So i know how your feeling but giving up isnt the answer im not really sure what you should do but i kept both of mine and just let my mom take care of them while i went to work. And brought both mine to school with me and while they slept i slept. But just because you love her doesnt mean that you have to spend every minute with her if you feel like you need to get away. Have a friend or mom or something baby sit her for a while so you can sleep or while you sleep have your boyfriend take care of her then when he sleeps you take care of her. Take sh ifts well thats what i got to say. Hope iv helped Dont be afraid to write back.
Signed
Short N Punky
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Thanks....that really helped....Im not gonna give her up....i love her to much to do that...she deserves better and im gonna support her the best i can.I asked my best friend who is 18 to baby-sit for me sometimes and she said she would be honored to help me out.She said I need the sleep cuz I look like im a walkin dead.She finished school and she's gonna start collage next year when i become a junior so she can help raise Ashlie Faith(my daughter)until she's at 1 so it will be a little easier on me.Anyways thanks again and feel free to right back or leave one in my inbox so we can keep in touch.
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Hey, my name is Kelley, a little bit about my life: Im 24 i have a 4 year old daughter, when i was younger i got into alot of trouble because i felt unwanted and picked on alot in school. As i grew up i got into several bad abusive relationships. Now that i have gotten out of my old life im crawling up from the ashes and making a new life. Im a great listener and i love giving advice, if youd like to give me a shot id try my hardest to give the best advice i can give. The reason some people dont like me is because i tell it how it is i dont sugar code anything and im very opinionated. Id love to listen to your problems and help out that best i can.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: NY Occupation: Full time mom Age: 24 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: June 19, 2004 Answers: 237 Last Update: May 1, 2014 Visitors: 18104
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