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I'm a musician and a writer, and most people label me as a hippie (I'm against labeling in most senses). I use musician and writer loosely, and many people can back that statement up.

I will not answer sex questions. So don't even ask. I will, however, answer questions about relationships (at a PG level), writing, music, and my opinions on pop culture and the like. Now then, for the fair warning stuff:

-I am a classic rock fan. There's not much "modern" music that I like, although I do enjoy some modern rock bands. However, I'm not a huge rap fan. Or country. Really I'm just a rock fan, though I'll "try" to be open minded.

-I'm very much into humor and trying to be funny. I love watching comedies, stand up, and writing funny fluff. I'm also sarcastic, so that's just a heads up for any responses I make.

-I play guitar and I'm a songwriter. So if you ask questions about music and poetry/songs, I'll most likely answer from the guitarist/singer's standpoint (i.e. you ask about music, I'll answer in how the guitar is, and how the lyrics/singing is. I might be able to critique the other instruments, but no promises are made).

-One final thing, I'm not "l337," and I can't read internet lingo too well (I can read some, but it's not a cake-walk). I'll try to understand and answer, but once again no promises are made.

-Don't get snippy at me. You're the one online asking someone advice, so just be glad I'm not being a jerk. Because I can, and if you get snippy I will.

-Rate me if you wish, but it's seriously not required. I'm happy to help you (if I do infact help).

Other than those little points, I'm happy to answer the questions you have. Enjoy!

Peace Out,
Guitar Dude
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I don't even know how to put this into words. Me and my friend Sam were talking, and she's all...Hey, can you help my friend out? He needs to upload something onto that website you're into. I'm like...okay sure. And so we get to talking and we both REALLY like poetry and such. It's weird. And anyway a week later...we're still talking. Alot. He's asked me to call him 3 times. And I did. And we can talk about anything. He lives about 3 minutes away from me, and goes to a different highschool. I'm almost 16, and he'll be 17 next week. I can't decide how to go about knowing if he likes me because he's never really seen me. I mean, only in pictures. But he acts like it. And I just wondered what your opinion would be if you were in this situation from his perspective. (link)
Hrmm, well, if I were in his position I would want to meet you in person. However, not being a mind-reader, I wouldn't know if that is where he stands.

From what I've heard, you both have quite a bit in common, so a meeting would probably be the best thing to do. Seeing as you live three minutes away from him, I think it would be good to designate a meeting place, and set up a time to meet him.

Unfortunately, the safety issue comes into play. Do you really know who he is? Have you ever seen him before?

To eliminate (some) of the threat, I would suggest planning to have some friends of yours go as well. It's much safer in a group than to be alone.

And finally, I would strongly suggest to remain yourself the entire time. It's easier to act differently to make someone happy than most people suspect. Having your friends along will help keep you yourself.

By the way, I'm sure that the final piece of advice sounds like the biggest cliche this side of Woody Allen, but it's true and it works.

I hope this helps!

-Guitar Dude-


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thnx a bunch. i really hope he's not a crazy person.




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