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i am a 17 year old female who is a good friend. i like to help people, and i love music. i am very involved in my school, i know a wide variety of things, so i hope to help someone!

Juelz

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well i really need help ..well theres this boy nd lets call him "carl" so i started likin this guy nd i told him nd i found out he felt the same way but longer for him so we talked nd he was so great so we finaly wen out nd omg he was so great nd i realized i was fallin for him nd then a rmor went around that he had cheated nd he said it wasnt tru but all the signs are right there nd im pretty sure he did it but i think he relaized it was worng nd didnt want to hurt me nd then the day i found out i was cryin in skool for the rest of the day .. so i call ready to break up nd he gave me this crap bout bout he didnt do it nd i sorta beleived him nd it took a while to put it together but that same day i found out .. this girl had been tellin him i had been flirtin wit other guys .. but i didnt .. i got him to beleive me then his firned told him i broke up wit ihm nd he beleived it .. we atill talk nd he tells me how much he loves me nd he wants me bac nd then one of my friend kary was akin if he was goin to ask me out nd if he did i dont kno wat to say .. i really love him but theres one problem .. i moved nd he lives 15 minutes away which isnt that long away but we go to different skool nd i dont kno wat to do if he does cuase i really love him wit all my heart .. please help me ..

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hun, you are in a tough situation. you dont really know what to do and that is ok. i think it is great that you guyz still talk, and that you still love each other. but in order to have a working relationship, you guyz have to trust each other. from what i understand, that trust is very low if even existant, which can cause problems in the relationship.
if you truly truly love this guy and he really truely loves you, then you shoudl have no problem re-gaining the missing trust and building a happy and healthy relationship. if you love a guy with your whole heart, you really need to give you guyz another chance, i think. but whatever you do, amke sure it is what you want ok hun.

good luck and best of wishes

Juelz

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(Rating: 5) thanx for the advice ..
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