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omg ok i turned 15 in june & i've never "french kissed" any1..like wut tha hell..all my friends have and iduno..i've had so many boyfriends & almost all of them have wanted to make-out with me, but that's when i usually dump them and go hide b/c im soooo nervous...like i want to sooo badly but i'm scared..i don't know what to do, and i don't want to look dump b/c i'm a bad kisser or w/e..iduno..i'm seein this guy now..who i absolutely adore & i don't want to ruin it b/c i'm scared of my first kiss..i love him so much and he's 2 years older than me so i know he'll want to kiss..help..='(...i know after i get the first one over with i'll be fine..i'm just usually hesitant when it comes to doing things i'm unsure about..sorry its so long..i'm just upset & scared & confused..hmm plz help

Hey hun, don't worry too much about your first kiss. It may seem like a big deal now, but in a few years you'll laugh about how much you obssesed about it. First kisses are rarely that great anyway.
You also shouldn't worry about what your boyfriend will think. Simply explain to him you've never kissed anyone before (don't be embarrassed to do so either!), if he loves you he'll understand and help guide you through it. After awhile you'll see it gets a lot easier.

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