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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please. (link)
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Well for one thing, it was great that you told him you weren't playing second best anymore. If you hadn't of said that, who knows, he might keep coming back. It's understood how you feel; being in love with someone so much, and when they treat you bad, you just love them even more. A lot of people would tell you to get over him because he's not worth it. Yeah, that could be true in a sense, but it's not like it's wrong to love someone like that. We know it's hard just to decide NOT to love someone anymore. Maybe if you confront him, and tell him exactly how you feel, you'd feel better. Just remember to never lose hope, because there's always a chance. Don't wait for him or anything, but you might always love him, and that happens. You'll probably have feelings for him until you meet someone new. Always have faith!
.:*Em&xTina*:.
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Thanks for being so straight up. You're right people are like get over him he's horrible..blah blah blah. But you and I both know its just not that easy. Thanks for your help!
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