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Q: Okay here's my problem!I liked this guy here and there on and off. There's no doubt that there isn't any attaction cause people see it all the time. When we go out in public, people think we are a couple. I told him how I really felt about him (though we are like best friends) he said he only likes me as a friend, and that he's sorry he can't return the same feelings. But he also like one of my friends and out of the kindness of my heart, I hook them up... but she's jux like me, and we are also cool. I'm not jealous (yet) or anything like that cause me and him still flirt the same way we do, and we are still good friends. So I dunno what to do, still like him or move on? I dunno how to feel or what to think? Any advice? Plz help! Thankz a munches!
first of all congrats to you for actually telling him how you feel! i only wish i had the guts to do that...lol. but that is the best way to go about these situations because you can actually get things out in the open insted of wondering "what if".
anyway, since you did tell him and he says he only wants to be friends, then that's probably as far as it will go right now. do your best to move on. its awesome that you guys are still good friends, so you dont want any jealousy to hurt that friendship. maybe he has some friends he can fix you up with! and hey, you never know..maybe sometime down the road he will like you as more than a friend!

Thankz A Bunch!

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