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This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!!

hey! just be honest with him! and if he loves you he will be honest with you too! just say u've heard rumors that you don't think are true but u want to make sure. and you dont like hearing things like that even if they arent true.. who does? and about the marriage things tell him u arent ready to talk about it yet even though it could be an option a long way down the road. dont rush things, you need to get to know him better (especially if u think he may be cheating on you!!) just take ur time, nothing good ever comes from moving too fast! if u need ne thing else just let me know! i hope i helped some..

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(Rating: 5) Thankx..that helped alot.
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