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Hey, i'm Nikki... just your typical 15 year old... i'm a sophmore..i play Basketball, volleyball, dance, track & i use to play softball but way to many politics...umm the picture pretty much describes me..although its kinda old..i have brown hair, brown eyes..about 5'3..hehe short girl!.. well if theirs anything you'd like to know..don't be afraid to ask:-D

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I would like to thank y'all in advance before you read this. It's probably rather long just because I think you need a little backround information about me... Good luck and thanks if you give me advice... I'll rate you high for this one (That sounds like a bribe)... ANYWAY... I'm having kind of a friend/idenity crisis. First off.. I use to NEVER hang out with girls. I was always one of the guys until 8th grade (I am not going into 10) When I grew boobs, had a NICE body, and was the captian of the competition cheerleading sqaud of my middle school. I had everything I wanted... I was beautiful, and popular (Shalow.. I know) Then, I didn't even make the high school cheerleading sqaud and I was kind of at an all time low. It was one of the most depressing time periods ever for me. That summer I gained 30 pounds and had no friends except my boyfriend. Luckily, I had my boyfriend there for me, which is still with me. At the begining of my freshman year I told my boyfriend how I was kind of nervous about going back to school because of my drastic change. So he told me I should hang out with girls. And so I did. I found a group of girls to hang out with. Turns out the year before I had bad thoughts about them but once I got to know them they werent what I really thought... (big lesson you all... don't jugde) Anyway, So that year was okay. I had girlfriends and stuff.. But I was kinda over weight and feeling really crummy about myself. But I wasn't gunna let that get me down... So I decided to get in something to take the place of my lifetime love, cheerleading. I became an active member in student council. There I became class president, And now I am student body president. I kinda prefer this position over cheerleading. ANYWAY... back to my friends... This summer was kind of weird with my girl friends position. I was happy i had girls to talk to about girl stuff and do girl things with. My boyfriend was happy too. So this summer I started big with TONS of partys and tons of drinking. Me and my girlfriends had a riot. But then I went to 3 leadership camps and decided that I wanted to be a role modle. So i stoped smoking, and drinking, and the parties. Well after I didn't want to do that my girl friends kind of left me behind even though we were really close. We barely talk anymore... And if we do its because they don't have anything else better to do and they wanna chill because they're bored. I know my possibilities.... I know my position.... I know what I can do... But what do y'all think about my position? About me? And what I should do.. Thanks

hey girl,..Don't worry bout them girls..if they were really your friends they wouldn't of done that to you in the first place...i think that you should go out there and get some real friends..:-)..you deserve them..Being a role model is very important..im very proud of you for choosing that over drinking & smoking..i know i sound like a mother..but you did a very good thing.. if i was in your shoes, i'd prolly tell my friends how i feel..maybe they will lighten up...also, you don't have to drink or smoke everytime your somewhere..or anytime..but i know that leads to peer pressure..but enough with that..i just wanted to tell you that i'm very proud of you...and if i was in your shoes..i'd try to make friends with another group of girls..that way you have more...so you can lean on them for some things when you need someone to talk to..:-)..i'm here if you need me

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