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When browsing through this surprisingly interesting site, a rather sad fact was brought to my attention: I could not find one comment, question, or otherwise significantly sized statement written by a user in which any of the basic rules of grammar and word placement were properly utilized. I was suddenly compelled, in a lightening-like flash to become the only bitter and or cynical advisor who had a justifiable reason to be cocky and detached. And then, in an instant, I tripped over a radioactive bucket of waste that may have been a friend of mine and became ‘Angst Ridden Teen Who is Conveniently Masked by The Internet’! Now equipped with super bitchifying glowing lasso action!
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hey, im gunna be startin high skool on august 9th

can sum ppl tell me sum do's and don'ts

i kno that ill have friends goin to my high skool,and im pretty outgoin, so i know that ill make new friends too, but i was woderin wut r sum good ways to make friends, and wut r Do's and Don'ts when it comes to high skool and peer pressure
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Alright, some do's and don'ts
High school is basically the most overly exaggerated, dramatized, and pressured situation you will ever find yourself in. People will blow things out of proportion for 4 years strait, and you will look back and laugh. The best thing to Do is to stay calm, chill out, it Really isn't as bad as people make it out to be. Friends will come to you if you are confident in yourself, stand tall, and Do Not BY ANY MEANS join in on the idiotic games the people of high school tend to play. By this I mean, do not get into drama involving relationships, do not get in between people when they are fighting, it’s best to just stay out of things like that. Do be as supportive as you can, be nice to people, and try not to be cocky or overly dramatic. Peer pressure is just a bitch, don't buy into it. You may get the illusion that doing a bunch of drugs and sleeping with the football team will get you friends. This is a big mistake, you might be more popular for a few minutes, but soon after you do something like this everyone will begin to mock you. My suggestion? Make friends the real way, by being nice, confident, and supportive.
And remember, stay out of the drama.


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i would never give in to drugs or sleepin wit ANY1, believe me, i've been pressured to try stuff, and i've always had the confidence to say kno, even if i was to sleep wit sum1 it'd be my boyfriend, and he's not ready, nor am i, the youngest age i would be sleepin wit sum1 is atleast 22-23, that way ill atleast have had 2-4 years of college, so i'd be able to get a decent job is i got pregnant! THANKS SO MUCH 4 YOUR HELP :)) :))




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