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When browsing through this surprisingly interesting site, a rather sad fact was brought to my attention: I could not find one comment, question, or otherwise significantly sized statement written by a user in which any of the basic rules of grammar and word placement were properly utilized. I was suddenly compelled, in a lightening-like flash to become the only bitter and or cynical advisor who had a justifiable reason to be cocky and detached. And then, in an instant, I tripped over a radioactive bucket of waste that may have been a friend of mine and became ‘Angst Ridden Teen Who is Conveniently Masked by The Internet’! Now equipped with super bitchifying glowing lasso action!
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Member Since: July 11, 2004
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Last Update: July 27, 2004
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im so confused. i like this kid alot and everytime we go to a party together we hang around eachother and if i sit by him he will pull me on his lap and things that that...flirting wit me and i flirt back. then his friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. maybe he was embarressed? but then later he asked me for my number and he called me twice and we talked for about 2 hours each time. we flirt and everything and weve become friends. shud i say nething to him about it? or just let it be? cuz i wanna be more then just friends...and i htink he does too. (link)
The fact that he flirts with you and yet doesn’t commit to his actions by actually asking you out is evidence to me that he is scared of either commitment or embarrassment/rejection. This means he would probably be more comfortable with your making the first move, but I don't know that what makes him comfortable is the best thing to do. Just think calmly about what you want to do, and I assure you, your advice (being that you understand the situation) will be better than what I could guess. =)


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